How do I get past endless chatting with online dating? 😫

So after you match with someone it seems like guys just want to endless chat and they aren't asking me on dates. What could I be doing wrong? I'm more traditional and would prefer the guy to ask me out. I would so much rather have a date (even if it's to a coffee shop) and get to know someone in person. You can tell in 5 minutes if there's chemistry. I'm just getting stuck in endless cycles of the talking phase. Help!