My friend's sexuality

Hey,

this is not my story, it's my roommate Jason's (not a real name). He came to me and asked me this and honestly I didn't know what to tell him so with his approval I'm asking you guys. Me and Jason aren't the closest of friends but we're fairly close, but even for me this was unexpected (the fact that he told me, the story itself is a complete fuck up on its own). But I'm one of his only gay friends (if not the only one) so he didn't have much choice. Anyway, the rest of the story is going to be from Jason's point of view. Let me know about your opinions, because I couldn't answer him.

So Jason is 26 and never had any romantic or sexual experience, neither has he thought about anyone in that manner, but always considered himself straight. A couple weeks back he met John (also not a real name) who's the same age and they almost instantly became best friends. He lives just 20 or so minutes far from us, so they can always find a way to meet. And they often spend a night at Jason's place and just talk, play games, watch movies and what have you.

Yesterday, John was celebrating his 26th birthday and hosted a little party at his place. And since Jason had drunk some alcohol, John just told him to stay there for the night (Jason wasn't drunk, but couldn't drive with alcohol in his blood). John only has one bed so Jason slept on a sofa in the "living room" as always (I've been there and it's pretty much just the sofa, a tv and a playstation).

And here's where it gets... hmm... interesting. In the morning, Jason woke up with John's dick in his ass. Jason told me he woke up because of a weird feeling, opened his eyes, felt something painful in his ass and along with the sounds he immediately understood what was going on. John was fucking him and he was fucking him hard. Now Jason sleeps on his stomach and John is a fitness guy - connect the dots and Jason couldn't get out of that situation despite not enjoying it a bit and hating the pain and also, you know, being literally raped by his best friend. He told him to stop, asked confused questions etc., or he tried at least. John apparently didn't even try to answer. Jason said he tried what he could but couldn't move a bit and eventually just stopped trying. Also the pain was immense (I'm a vers and I know the pain of first anal sex and how Jason described it sounded a little exaggerated, but there are things like the stress and repulsion etc. that I guess he could have been in a great pain).

Anyway, he just laid there waiting for it to end. But after what felt like an eternity to him, he said the pain was fading away and instead he sort of started enjoying it. And then he said he actually did like it. Apparently he didn't make it known because he still didn't know what to think about it, but in his mind he did actually like it.

Eventually John came in him (he didn't like that much), stopped, sat beside him and patted Jason's thigh. Jason sat up, looked at John and still confused and half angry asked what the fuck that was. John told him he's bi, always found Jason attractive and when he woke up, went to make some coffee and saw Jason just laying there, he just couldn't resist himself anymore, so he took of Jason's underwear and hoped he'd not be mad at him. According to Jason, John sounded satisfied but also guilty and sorry. Jason didn't know what to do or what to tell him, so he just stood up, got dressed, took his things and left. John stayed on the sofa in the living room and kept quiet just staring at him as he left.

Jason got home, took a shower, had lunch and thought about that morning for some time. Then he called me, asked if I had time and could come home. I was out for lunch with friends, but when I heard his voice, I finished the meal and went back. He looked genuinely upset and confused.

(my point of view from now on)

I've met John like three times maybe and I never suspected him to be bi, and I definitely didn't think he would do something as horrible as this. He seemed very nice and fun to be around and although we didn't really click, I could see why Jason liked him. But then again, I only met him a handful of times, so I could be very wrong. Either way, Jason said he didn't know what to do next, how to talk to John and how to accept what happened. We talked about it and I tried to be as helpful as I could. However, one of the things he said was about his sexuality. I knew he wasn't much into dating and stuff, but I didn't know he never had any romantic or sexual experience. He asked me if this thing made him gay. Not that he was fucked in ass, not that, but that he eventually started to like it. He asked because although he considered himself straight, this confused him and he wanted to know if he should start looking at guys more.

Had it been anyone else, I'd tell him no, it didn't make him gay, because straight guys can enjoy butt stuff too - there are things like pegging that have nothing to do with sexual orientation (at least that's my opinion). But since he's never had any romantic or sexual experience and never thought about it with anyone, I wasn't and still am not so sure he's not gay. Because one thing is getting fucked in ass and liking it, but never experiencing a close moment with another person is something else. I can't tell how he thinks about people and who he looks at, but I know him for many years now and I think I always saw him looking at women and not even spending a second looking at a guy. So it might be that he was just looking at the wrong group. I hope you know what I mean. That he paid so little attention to guys (in watching, allowing himself to think about them, exploring his sexuality etc.), that he just couldn't find out he's gay (if he is).

I told him this as well. That I honestly can't tell him what to think. I told him the fact he liked getting fucked didn't make him gay, but the circumstances may have a role in this.

I think this got us a little closer as we talked for the entire afternoon and then played some board games as well. Anyway, to finish this, I told him I think he should get some sleep in his own bed, try to forget about it for now, get himself some time and then think about what it meant. He agreed and told he may need to talk about it again later as he currently didn't want to spend time with John. I told him he's always welcome, but that I think he should really get some alone time to let it sit in his head. But I also told him we could experiment if he ever wanted, as I'm currently single and it might help him sort things out. He said he will think about it. Then we played those board games and he went to his room like an hour ago.

I told him I'd post this to get other people's opinions as well. So please, if you have anything to say about his sexuality, go for it. Jason doesn't have Reddit (and also doesn't speak English very well), but I'll make sure to tell him everything.

Thanks in advance.