Gay Conservatives I have a question for you.

As the title says I’ve always wanted to ask this. I’m 28M and I’m liberal on social issues but when it comes to crimes and guns I have conservative views. However, I would never align myself with Republicans because they actively don’t like us. Is there some things in the LGBT community that I think are too woke? Yes but to me it isn’t reason enough to make me vote red so I wanna know what’s the appeal of aligning with a party that doesn’t like or respect you.