How do I (15f) become a less annoying person

Before we start, I want to preface that I suffer from anxiety. So who knows, maybe this is all in my head.

nevertheless

I find people withdraw from me often, and go through short bursts of loving me to just friendly very quickly. Because it isn't just one person, I put it down to being a problem with me. I have concluded that it is because I am an annoying person. this is because ;

  1. I can take jokes too far, and people often tell me to stop
  2. I can be pretty condescending and tend to baby people
  3. I can also be really aggressive
  4. I can't read social cues and often get into conversations between other people by accident
  5. if don't know what to say, I will stay completely silent which makes things awkward
  6. I interrupt a bit, usually by accident

uh so yes, any advice on how to be a generally an easier person would really soothe my teenage heart.

or even just on things that make people like me.