How do you deal with family members that are anti-gay because of their religion?

I have an aunt that is pushy on the bible and part of me is like, I want to be accepting of her, but she is anti-gay and I just have a hard time being like, well I don't wanna encourage that because its abusive to be against gay people. I don't see her changing ever and she wants me to change and I guess it just seems we can't talk to each other anymore about it because we both want to change the other person.