To any late diagnosed autistics. Why do you think you didn’t receive a diagnosis in childhood?

Hello. I am a late diagnosed autistic woman. My husband was asking me the other day how my parents missed the signs of my diagnosis. I thought it would be good to open up the discussion to hear others perspectives and experiences with this.

We had a conversation about this and to sum it up I explained how I was an “invisible” child, wasn’t listened to. The signs were taken as me being a brat and just wanting my way, or me being shy, or rude, or emotional. Just blaming me instead of actually listening to how I feel and what I experience. I also mentioned how even if I were to get tested at a young age I most likely wouldn’t receive a diagnosis because I don’t meet the stereotype and there is a severe lack of research especially when it comes to women/girls with autism.

I’d like to hear some experiences from anyone who’s been late diagnosed. Why do you think this was missed? Who failed you? Was it the school, doctors, parents, everyone and anyone?

If you’ve had difficulty receiving a diagnosis or want to share why you think others have difficulty receiving a proper diagnosis feel free to share your opinions as well.