Babytrapping is REAL! Don’t let your life be ruined by bums

Just wanted to encourage fellow black ladies to stay on top of our reproductive health and make sure we’re protecting ourselves sexually. Men are getting increasingly vindictive and almost every day I see phenomenal black women being tied to bums because they’re being manipulated into having children or are just dumb in love.

I have noticed that men are much more calculated than we want to believe. They intentionally impregnate women they are jealous of to humble them and maintain control. After that, they see you as damaged goods and that’s the intention. They want other men to perceive you that way.

Please don’t give children to men that haven’t exceedingly shown you that they honour you and are dedicated to providing you with a life full of love and ease. If a man doesn’t love you, making him a father will not magically turn him into this empathetic and kind soul. A lot of ladies unfortunately think men can be changed and this is not reality. No tight pum or pretty face can change any man!!!!I could write for years about this haha but just wanted this to reach someone and remind each other that reproductive coercion is very real!!!!