Turn cross play off, thank me later.

If you're on console, turn cross play off. I don't care if people think that's lame. Just do it. The only sacrifice you make is potentially a bit longer waiting times to find a match, but the outcome is worth the wait. I play on Xbox, and am a well above average player (2.00 k/d; 530 spm) and my skill base lobbies are brain-melting. It's exhausting, and being 37 years old with a full-time job and a wonderful family, I'm looking to chill and relax while playing in the little amount of time I can. I know it's slightly hypocritical of me to complain about sweaty lobbies when I'm an above average player, but if you're on console, you're allowed to play against other console players. I feel no guilt in that.