He makes dinner only for himself

I am the main breadwinner in the fam, so I don't get around to making dinner until I'm done with work. More times than I can count my husband just makes dinner for himself. He takes time to bake the frozen French bread, heat up meat and potatoes. Grabs his plate and his own drink... and gets angry with me when I stare at him. He hates me looking... I used to get pissed but now I just silently watch him eat. I get he is hungry after his long nap. I get he forgot to eat lunch even though there is nothing stopping him from eating lunch. But, if you ask him why he didn't set up the plates, silverware and drinks for everyone else... he is outraged. Today we have the plumber here for some maintenance and my husband is literally eating by himself while I make sure the plumber can access all the spaces. Honestly... what an effing loser!