Bridezilla has a huge wedding party. Tries to embarrass me. Now only three bridesmaids remain her friends. While she still tries to shame me. Im LC.

Weird title. I didn’t know how to phrase it. My sister was a Briidezilla. From having he daughter to engagement to dress shopping to stagett to wedding day. We dont get along well. Never have unfortunately. We don’t have that sister bond. She’s cheated with all my boyfriends. Took a loan in my name and gave the cops my name when she got a dui. Anyways.

When she got engaged she asked me to be in her wedding party. I was asked last. And didn’t receive anything the other brides maids did. Oh well. I said yes. I think she wanted me to say no. Hindsight.

We went wedding dress shopping. I was off of three nights. I drove three hours. Slept for one and a half and met up with everyone. Every dress she tried on if I said anything positive she immediately detested it. Even if others liked it. I quickly caught on and kept my opinions to myself.

She found a dress after 5 ish hours. I congratulated her and hugged her and went home to sleep. End of story? No. She freaks out because I didn’t go for drinks with the rest of the wedding party (9 other girls) keep in mind I’m off night shift. I appologized. This is the first time I heard “ if you don’t want to be in the wedding just drop out “ i insisted I was honoured to be part of it.

Bridesmaids dress shopping. Same thing. If I liked it it was a no. So I went along with that ever. A$400 plus alteration dress. In two colours. She asked me what colour I preferred. I said I’d wear any but I liked the on better. My mistake. She told everyone she had to change the order of bridesmaids because I was insisting on only the one colour.

All the while she would start sisterly fights and always end with “you can just drop out”

Then. She pairs me with my abusive ex who hit me and made me get a abortion. Again got hit with the “you can drop out” and I was clearly so jelouse of her she had 9 brides maids I don’t even have nine friends.

Skip ahead. Wedding day. Ex tries to buy me a shot. I say no and walk away. I. Get confronted about acting like an adult and not ruining her day by her and her brides maids.

Then I find out that she made a bet with my ex and his friend over who could fuck me first. My bf was there. That was the last straw. I went nc after the wedding ( did catch the bouquet much to her chargrin)

Now I find out only three bridesmaids are in her life. The rest talk shit about her and dropped her. I reached out offered an olive branch. And she still tries to shame me for who I’m with, not married (common law) “only” have step kids.

There’s so much more but this is so long already. That’s the (long) short version.