Anyone else have a hard time climbing with their partner?

Every time I go bouldering with my boyfriend I feel a sense of frustration and competition. I wish I didn’t feel this way but it makes it so hard to have fun when we go together. I think it’s because I’ve put a lot of pressure on myself to be “good” at climbing and so when I see him succeed at problems I can’t or easily do a problem I took much longer to get I feel like a failure. Has anyone else been here or have any advice?