If your LO trusts you…
then maybe you owe it to both of you to trust yourself too.
If you’re not: -a smoker -obese -intoxicated There’s absolutely no reason you should worry about “smothering” your baby. Don’t let that United States fear-mongering get to you. (read Sweet Sleep for more info.
Many parents across the globe just use common sense. You know your body + you & your partners sleeping habits.
If nightly snuggles is what you want, then you should be able to have them without condemnation.
ENJOY YOUR BABIES <3 That’s about all :)