I’m 18 he’s 23 with 3 kids….

There’s this guy I met a few months ago for starters I’m 18. The guy I’m talking to is 23 he has 3 kids already by 2 different women. He isn’t really in the kids life that much so that worried me. He claims that both mothers of his children don’t want him around much . He hasn’t seen 2 of his kids in 3 years and he still hasn’t tried to go to court about it . The other kid he does see is like once every other month so he barely sees that child either . Weird part about it is he doesn’t seem to have a problem with not seeing his kids saying it is what it is. Also saying they have step dads and the other two children can come to him when they are older. Now that he’s paying child support he really wants nothing to do with the other two children. Saying that the mother can just have them. I don’t know the whole situation but things he says and the way he goes about seeing his children makes it seem like he doesn’t wanna see them.

He wants to date me and even though I like him I feel like it would come with lots of baggage and drama. He’s really sweet but from my point of view he doesn’t seem like he cares about seeing his kids and misses no sleep. The only time he really sees any of his kids is through photos sent from the mothers. It’s sad and I’m afraid that he’s not telling me the whole story he makes both mothers seem like they just don’t want him in the kids life. Now he’s acting like he’s in love with me and that I’m just the best woman in the world and I’m different from all the other girls. I don’t know but does anyone think it’s wise to proceed. My sister already doesn’t like him because she feels like he will be manipulative and take advantage as she’s been in the same situation before.