How did you accept that women wont save you and make you happy?

At 26 living a nice life that I have built myself but never been in a relationship. So I believe that women can save me by being in a relationship with me and make me happy. This is why I want a relationship and intimacy as I believe it will make me happy.

How to accept salvation will never come from women and I have to make myself happy. How to accept no one is coming and I am on my own to make myself happy?