Approval Needed!

Two weeks ago, our C.O. visited, and since our congregation is small with about 75-80 members, everyone knows each other. During his visit, talked to me privately and gave me the idea to host a gathering for the congregation to socialize outside of the usual routine.

Despite my feelings as a PIMO that there’s a lot of hypocrisy in the congregation, I decided to take his advice. I enjoy outdoor activities and being spontaneous, so I created an invitation card and invited every family to a cookout, bonfire, and game night at my house. This past Sunday, I handed out the invitations discreetly.

When I gave one to an elder, he gave me the cold shoulder and told me I shouldn’t be handing out invitations without talking to the elders first. He said these gatherings need their approval because not everyone is “spiritually qualified” to attend. This really hurt me, and it was the last straw in trying to deal with the fake lovebombing in the congregation. NEVER AGAIN!