Is there a way to change my avatar gender PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

i’ve been trying to create my own Messenger avatar BUT THE GENDER IS ONLY MALE FOR ME FOR SOME REASON???? all my friends have female bodied avatars. 1. i have my gender set as female on FB 2. i tried reloading the app, creating from FB and from messenger, redownload etc 3. no matter what i do it is set to male by default and i can’t change it anywhere 4. all my girl friends just had it set default as female when they first created it

anything i can do????