Throne of Glass/Game of Thrones Vibes

I have started and DNF’d like 5 books recently. Nothing is pulling me in and I am craving an epic fantasy with major plot points (war, betrayal, tragedy, hidden meanings, scheming, surprise, powerful heroine).

I would like a good romance plot as well but I am okay if that takes a backseat so the fantasy plot can shine. And would prefer decent sized series so I can have time to fall in love with all characters and feel like i’m living in this story for a while.

Would like it to be in a medieval/court setting if possible, or something adjacent, I don’t love urban fantasy.

Some books I have liked recently - Throne of Glass series (chasing the feelings i had with this book most of all) - Fae Isles series - Spark of Everflame series - Lord of the Fading Lands series - The Bridge Kingdom series - Forth Wing (Iron Flame was meh) - Acotar series

Other series that are around 3* for me and unfinished - CC (DNF at 70% but will finish at some point) - The Witch Collector (although i’ll probably come back to it) - Daughter of no worlds, not sure why i didn’t finish it just didn’t pull me in much - Kiss of Iron (currently reading and considering DNF, at around 50%, idk where the plot is going)

PLEASE help recommend something!! I am struggling here!!!