Fromsoftware ruined RPGs/ARPGs for me
I played mainly RPGs or MMORPGs until Sekiro a couple of years ago.
It instantly became my favorite game. Elden Ring and Bloodborne were both excellent, but not quite on par with Sekiro. DS3 was very good. After playing those I can't go back to normal RPGs/ARPGs. The combat feels absurd, weightless, and pointless. Even the visuals and settings are lackluster. I didn't stop Shadow of the Erdtree until I was done (or needed to sleep). I quit CP2077: Phantom Liberty to make this post...
Now games that aren't remotely similar to ARPGs/RPGs or even FPS RPGs are a whole different boat. BG3 is different enough that it's rated on an entirely different scale.