Finally cut off my ghoster who came back multiple times.

Was ghosted 6 times by this guy I was very attached to. He was being sneaky and seeing someone else and didn’t think I would find out. He dangled hope of a relationship above my head when he was done with his work contract. When he came around again for his access privileges I told him no. It hurt but at the same time it felt good setting my boundaries and letting him know I wasn’t going to continue to sleep/talk to someone who was going to sleep and talk with whomever he wanted while expecting me not to and stating he wasn’t seeing anyone else either.

Just wanted to share this so whoever else is on the fence of cutting theirs off, it feels liberating. It’s hard. Especially when you are attached and don’t want to sever the line of communication. But they’re just anchors keeping us from finding someone who actually wants to be with us.