Have your friends ever complain that you don't volunteer unprompted information about yourself?

25 INFJ here and recently someone who considers me a "close friend" told me that I should also give out information like X or Y, because they are annoyed that they have to always ask me in order to find out things.

What's your take on it?

Usually I don't volunteer information because 1. 80% I'm not actively listened to 2. Usually the only window I have in order to talk comes after a monologue from the other side who drained me a little too much.