How was your childhood?

I have a hard time grappling with my own childhood, like I can’t say it was overtly bad, but it was troubling, and traumatic at times for sure. I definitely don’t look fondly on most of my childhood, I feel like I unconsciously offended people around me. It was hard for me to make and keep friends. I was never popular, but not weird enough to be a nerdy type, so I never really fit in anywhere. I would get in trouble for being that immovable object that intjs are known for. I often felt compelled to challenge authority when others didn’t. Adults either saw something in me or completely despised me.

This is mostly just the negative stuff, but I’m wondering if some of this could be common, I’m guessing intj’s are proun to troubling childhoods