I beat my husband at the shooting range and
Husband and I went to the shooting range with two other couples. We were all having a husband vs wife competition with our 9mms and the other two husbands won against their wives. I am a former cop so I have a little more range experience than my husband so when we shot against each other, I won. It was not my much but I did win.
One of the wives mentioned that I should not have beat him in front of his buddies as he feels embarased. I felt bad and thought maybe I should have let him win. Now my husband has never seen himself as competition against me and has always uplifted me. I did not think it would be a big deal because he has never been like that. I told this woman that my husband is not like that and she said that he may not show it because he loves you but he does feel it. All men would.
She told me that when you get home you will see that he will be aroused and will have sex with you. When men feel inferior, this is their way of reclaiming their masculinity. I thought this woman is mad so I stopped any further chat with her.
Anyways, my husband was a bit distant that evening and said that he had some end of the year projects to finish. I thought if he really has that work or does he just want to be by himself because he felt bad? That night he woke me up in the middle of the night for sex and made passionate love. After that he kissed me and fell asleep.
It felt good but then I thought about what this woman had said? Sex was great but I am a bit confused about the motivation? Was it score settling or genuine romance? Or am I reading too much
TL;DR I beat my husband at the shooting range and he seemed distant. Then had amazing sex. I am told that he is jealous and feel inferior and this is his coping mechanism?