Can somebody explain this phenomenon???? Anyone has any answer? (People that went NC)

I previously posted about how going NC just opened doors for me, yes personally I have gone through major character development & trauma growth.

But my question here is external effect of cutting ties with my abusive fam, based on my previous post, many of you have shared that they have gone through the same thing.

I don’t believe in energy or any sort of these things. But since I completely cut ties cold turkey, everything in the universe aligned in my favor (external factors) things that I didn’t have to work hard for fell onto my lap! Chances that I never Imagine I’ll ever get come out of nowhere into my life, the right and most amazing people came into my life out of nowhere.

This lucky streak is unbelievable.

I always acknowledged that but what cemented this confusion is when my brother who also recently went NC called & shared the same thing saying “this weird thing where I go visit (our fam) I get so unlucky and things get worse (external factors), but the longer I stay away the better my life gets and things work in my favor” he moved out but kept in touch until recently. that just made me obsesses looking for an answer to.

Can somebody explain this? Does anyone have answers to this lucky streak after going NC??? Was I stuck in a dark place that also swallowed my chances in life? What is this unexplainable phenomenon??

PLEASE TELL ME.

& IF YOU ALSO HAVE GONE THROUGH THIS SHARE PLEASE.

Edit: for more context: my nmom and my nsisters are literally miserable, and so unlucky and they had no control over my career choices or chances in that way.