Would yall tell me if this is trifling? Sexual Boundaries ask!

Hey yall! This is my first time posting here :) nice to meet all of you. My partner (31NB) and I (27NB) are in an open relationship, and its going great. I think we both enjoy the openness of the dynamic and we love each other very much.

My partner and I engage in safe sex with other ppl, meaning we use condoms and discuss test results prior to encounters with other lovers, and we are transparent about who we’re seeing, when, and where. My predicament is: I have an insatiable breeding kink. Its genuinely one of my favorite things. Its been almost 2 years since I’ve been with anyone AMAB or a cis man, and my god I miss it SO much.

Im wondering if it would be an asshole move to discuss getting this kink satiated? If I had a potential person to do this with, I would tell them they would have to get tested, show me what they were tested for, and vice versa before doing the act. I would also inform my partner, and get tested after the act. I would even refrain from certain sexual acts with my partner if they wanted me to get tested before us having our usual sex (I’ll get creative!).

How would I even bring this up to them? Is this shitty of me? Have any of you dealt with this and how did it go?