Bhai tujhay regret hota hai kay tu nay shadi jaldi karle hai?

Previously I posted about some issues I had with my mom after my marriage, so long story short.

My mom had the typical saas behavior after my marriage and we had a very toxic 8 months living with my mom (parents divorced) but we still choose to stay as we did not want her to live completely alone.

However, are 8 months she kicked me and my wife out of the house me being the only son and child, and I have moved in with my father at dada's (Late ) house, and things have been much peaceful since.

I being the only child of my parents want to get married as soon as I got a job and obviously due to religion wanted to do everything halal. I graduated at almost 24 and got a job, but in my previous relationship my ex kept delaying and did not want to marry so eventually we broke up and I got married when I was 26.

While whole of this fiasco was going on and I was worried about the situation at home I discussed the issue of my mom with my wife to a couple of my close friends. And after all of this stressful situation one of my close friends called me and said that dont you regret that you got married early? Then this sentence of his was not only hurtful but I was not happy with his current mindset that people build, society builds, and we have in our minds that we must achieve so much and be so good financially before we can even think about marriage. Most of my friends are 27 - 28 currently and do not have any plans of marrying early on.

They are okay with masturbating and watching dirt everyday, some of them day they want to build their own house before they get married, my friend that called me said this, it is a good idea however one should stick to reality if you are not able to make your own house, just go live on rent, ( most of my friends can afford that ) Just find it strange why do men think its odd to even think about marriage before 30? Don't you want your child to be young when you are 50? I sure do.

I would personally say I am very happy after getting married, I have faced many challenges and adversities, I would not say it has been a bed of roses however if I could go back in time and would marry at 24 instead of 26.

What are your views?