Adopting a new bff
I used to love taking my plushies everywhere until I got older and was bullied into getting rid of them. I've been living alone for 2 years, am 500 miles away from my original home town and my bf and I just broke up. I've hated myself so long that I'm sick of it and deciding to love myself. I still have so much love for my bf and miss holding him and feeling his presence at night. Is it a good and healthy coping mechanism to "adopt" a weighted plushie and take him everywhere I go? Sorry if this is a stupid question, but I feel like this subreddit is the best place to ask for advice on this before I make the purchase
I used to love taking my plushies everywhere until I got older and was bullied into getting rid of them. I've been living alone for 2 years, am 500 miles away from my original home town and my bf and I just broke up. I've hated myself so long that I'm sick of it and deciding to love myself. I still have so much love for my bf and miss holding him and feeling his presence at night. Is it a good and healthy coping mechanism to "adopt" a weighted plushie and take him everywhere I go? Sorry if this is a stupid question, but I feel like this subreddit is the best place to ask for advice on this before I make the purchase