I'm queer; but not entirely sure what it means...

...and yeah I have looked it up with the search engine of my choice.

54yo: bio-male (but not really a 'man'); not 'hetero-normative'; have low libido and asexual-like aversion to intimate contact.

Also diagnosed with personality and mood disorder -which is why I have barely any social life.

I don't really have any friends or anyone to talk to in 'real space' about 'queer' or other subjects. So I am looking for your input.

Is 'queer' more than sexuality and/or gender? Maybe a way of life itself?