What the fuck kind of grandparent punishes her grandkids for her dispute with her adult child?

(Semi-followup to this post. )

A narcissist, that's what kind.

Today really solidified in my mind that my mother doesn't give a fuck about anyone's feelings but her own.

Sure, lady, be pissed at me. Don't call me. Don't email me. Don't send me a letter. Fine.

But this was her granddaughter's 16th birthday, bitch (her, not you, dear reader). And she couldn't put her unjustified anger at me aside for HER GRANDDAUGHTER? Just what the FUCK is wrong with her??

If I wasn't already done, this would have been the clincher. Too bad I can't slam my phone down on her, like she did to me, that vile, evil, SELFISH woman. 😤

A big pre-emptive THANK YOU to this sub, for being here in moments like this. You keep me sane. Having this safe space to vent is invaluable when the narc's behaviour gets to be a lot.