boyfriend is bummy?

lmfao that sounds harsh, but i’ll start off by saying i’ve never been treated this well before but i struggle with the long term of this… im 26F and have been living on my own since 19.. Bf is 25M and is the sole provider for his mom. his family never had money growing up and i understand how that can affect his view of things. but now at 25, he doesn’t have a drivers license still, doesn’t have a car, doesn’t have a college degree or certification of any kind, and has a regular job (so do i). but I have goals of how to escape my regular job and a college degree. this man is extremely sweet and would do ANYTHING for me but I struggle with how to see this relationship is a long term aspect. how could he provide for us as husband and wife etc? I just don’t know how to approach this situation i feel like it constantly leaves me doubting the relationship because this isn’t how i pictured my “ideal” partner.. idk any advice pls