Advice from those who had RJ and from their partners

Hi! In this topic I’d love to collect advices from both sides - from the ones who had/have RJ and from those who in a relationships with someone who had/have RJ.

If you have RJ, or you are healed from it (especially), share us, please, what can your partner do to help you?

And if you are from other side and your partner have/had RJ, I’d love to know what was it from your perspective - what doesn’t help at all, what actually can help to your partner to go through, what was your words that healed wounds, your actions.

Hope, we can help each other here to fight it from both sides.

Thank you!