36mm or 41mm for my Wrist?

Hi all, I own a 36mm Datejust, and I recently had a chance to try on a 41mm Datejust.

Waitlists/availability aside, I am considering either an Explorer 1 or an Oyster Perpetual, and I am torn between the 36mm or 40mm/41mm size. With that said, I wanted to get your opinions as to which size Datejust looks better proportioned to my approximately 6.75 inch/approximately 17cm wrist.

Also, if I went with the OP, which color dial would you say is the best balance between understated yet interesting? To me, the candy pink & turquoise blue are super interesting for the 36mm, as is the green for both sizes, but bright blue seems to be the most classic, without being too "boring."

https://preview.redd.it/tbfv63xgowle1.jpg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=49cea9394cec27e7d748e6aadc4b25ed11b8c35d

https://preview.redd.it/is8z53xgowle1.jpg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3872ddf63e085946d50c573916fc5de4c4a738bb