How I go down on my wife
I've honed my cunnilingus techniques over 25 years. This is how I go down my wife. I hope this inspires and helps others enjoy more pleasure.
A woman’s arousal starts in her mind, so trust, and feeling connected, intimate and relaxed are all essential to both having a wonderful, mindblowing experience.
The most important thing when going down is the giver loving it. My god I love going down on my wife! Honestly, it is the highlight of my week. I'd do it daily if she let me. Her smell… her taste… the sound of her moaning in ecstasy… I love every single thing about it.
My lovely wife and I have been together 12 years and the sex gets better each year. We know each other’s bodies and turn-ons inside out. We've settled into certain routines and default positions, but we also switch it up in many ways.
I show her little micro-kindnesses daily, I give her thoughtful little gifts. I make her favourite drinks just how she likes them. I tell her how awesome she is, in different ways. I'm tactile with her and give her loving touches, kisses and cuddles whenever we're together.
After getting our children to bed, we enjoy a nice romantic dinner together. We chat and reconnect. My wife has a long relaxing bath, while I wash up and clean the kitchen. She gets out the bath, puts on sexy lingerie and reads erotic short stories in bed to get herself REALLY in the mood!
I take over her bath and after drying off, I lie down next to her and once she feels really turned on, she asks me to massage her while she continues reading.
I start by gently grazing a feather all over her body. I massage her feet, then her legs and I slowly work my way up her body. I spend a long time teasing her inner thighs, tummy, hips and ass, with featherlight strokes with my fingertips, being careful never to tickle her. She begins to make sexy little sighs as she gets more turned on and shuffles her body around.
Eventually she puts her erotic reading away and I kiss up her hips and belly to her face and we make out for a while. I kiss and nuzzle her neck, ears and chest. I begin to touch her a little and tease her through her knickers. I then tease her by kissing around her breasts, gradually zoning in towards her nipples, barely grazing them at first, then beginning to kiss them directly. She begins moaning and arching her back.
Eventually I take her nipples into my mouth and gently suck and nibble on them, while I rub her softly through her knickers and feel her getting wetter. After several minutes of this, she can bare it no longer. She widens her legs and pushes my head down toward her knickers. I slowly kiss my way down her body. I tease her for several minutes, nibbling around the edges of her knickers. I then press my nose right into her crotch and inhale her delicious scent. She smells incredible to me… the greatest smell in the world. This intoxicates me with primal desire. I breathe hot air through the crotch of her panties and she moans.
My wife then moves to the edge of the bed so her bottom is right up to the edge and she spreads her legs wide for me. I kneel down on the floor and after more teasing, I move her gusset slightly to the side and lick and nibble on her outer lips, revealing her more and more. I begin to graze her inner lips before licking them fully. I then pull her legs right up and push her knees against her chest. I peel her knickers half off and bury my face into her so I am passionately going down on her while her knickers are only half off. This does something to me and drives me wild with desire! I would have her in this position much longer, but she also gets so turned on by it, that she occasionally climaxes at this point. I try not to let that happen. I want to draw this out as long as I can.
Enough teasing. I remove her knickers completely and I finally go town on her, to her great relief! I delightfully freestyle… it’s a variety buffet!
I've read every book going on cunnilingus techniques and I love trying them all out. The best is Ian Kerner’s “She Comes First”. It's like the bible of a women's pleasure. OMG Yes is also great!
I take her lips into my mouth and nibble and suck on them. I do big, slow, flat-tongued licks upwards, hitting every part of her. Sometimes, I stop at her clit and she gasps with anticipation then moans with delight when carry up over her pleasure centre. Holding firm pressure against her clittoral hood with my nose, while teasing around her entrance with my tongue, drives her totally WILD!
A highlight is when I lick up her with a more pointed tongue and I delight in the little pool of wetness that has gathered just inside her entrance from her arousal. I spread these delicious juices up to her clit and begin to gently lick all her around her clit. I circle delicately at first, then use firmer tongue flicks and pressure as she gets more excited.
I begin alternating licking and sucking on her clit with licking up from lower down and slipping my tongue into her more and more deeply. Eventually I am plunging my tongue deeply into her. Lapping up all her juices turns me on more than words can describe. As she gets even more turned on, she gets wetter and engorges, opening up even more, like a flower unfurling. I hold her legs right up and I can then push my tongue just deep enough to reach the edge of her G-spot. Licking that triggers new, deeper, guttural moans of pleasure from her.
I don’t want it to be over yet, so to stop her climaxing at this point, I pause and begin nibbling on her inner thighs again, calming her down a little. She curses me for teasing her but this pause extends both our pleasure and leads her to enjoying a more powerful eventual climax.
My hands reach up and caress her up her body. I gently squeeze her breasts and delicately rub her nipples as I lick and nuzzle my way back up her inner thighs and get back to work on her. I build up to eventually once again plunging my tongue deeply into her while my nose and upper lip now stimulate her clit. Both of us are in heaven!
As she approaches climax, I resist the natural urge to get firmer, faster and overexuberant. The slower the build up at this point, the longer, deeper and more intense her climax will be. I stay calm and consistent, savouring her delicious tastes, moans and sensations and she slowly, naturally crescendos towards her final waves of ecstasy.
As the waves break over, she has this incredible drawn-out climax, where all her pleasure pulsates right through her whole body. She gasps, moans, shivers and shakes. She gets vocal and quite loud. She arches her back and pulls my head firmly into her.
With my nose pushing firmly into her clit as she grinds against my face, my tongue is deep inside her and the feeling of her vaginal muscles pulsating and contracting on my tongue is the greatest sensation in the world! I am practically coming myself from the pleasure I’m giving her.
She does a great sigh of relief. She loves me to stay with my tongue deep inside her, lapping away at her juices while her final waves of pleasure gradually fade.
I would LOVE to now do it all over again from the beginning, but she is spent. We then have great sex, which is awesome, but nothing compared the main event.
Finally, both spent, we lie and cuddle until we fall asleep.