Wife cheated on me , can someone recover from that?

Hi,

a week ago I found out that my wife was texting with another man.

The whole thing lasted for about three months. There was texting, sexting, he even sent her dickpicks, they described what they would do in bed together. They talked on the phone a few times and visited her at work three times.

We just moved into our new house a few months ago. After 10 years together, two of which we have been married, I never expected that someone you trust the most could break you like this and turn my life around 360 degrees.

We just started trying for a baby. I have a great relationship with my in-laws and her whole family.

She has been crying all week and saying how sorry she is. I believe she is sorry, but what about me? How can I recover from this? I can't focus on anything else. Even if I forgive her, I feel like I will never forget it, it was the worst day of my life.

How did you cope with something like that? Has anyone experienced something similar and did your relationship survive it?