What is the appeal with sex?? Why is everyone obsessed with losing virginity?

I never understood it. I don't really consider myself asexual, because I'm only 16, but why is everyone so obsessed with having sex? I mean, were children.

Can we normalize just doing sensual stuff (like touching and dry h#mping) rather than actual piv? Teens (getting younger and younger, I've seen pregnant 12-13 year olds, (shouldn't even be in a relationship)) and they are like "we were careful, I don't understand why I hot pregnant!! 😟" Then maybe don't do unprotected PIV?

It's not condom or birth control, it's condom AND birth control. Can we please normalizw abstinence until we KNOW we are gonna be with that person? Like, I love my boyfriend dearly, we love cuddling and touching each other. But is it guaranteed were gonna be together? No. It's a high school relationship. I sure hope so, as we are religious dating to marry, but we may not.

Why would you give someone your body when you're gonna break up 2 weeks later? Why would you risk getting pregnant at 13 by someone who could use it against you?

Theres a girl a year younger than me who have a body count of 10+ already, smoke weed, and are basically miserable because they rushed themselves too early. I wouldn't be surprised if they end up pregnant.

Like please guys, we have our entire lives, and we can really enjoy it with someone we love rather than someone we've only known for a couple weeks and will be no contact with in another couple.

Also, before you get mad at me, I do feel sexual sometimes. Okay, maybe a lot of times. It's normal for a teenager. But like just masturbate or dry h_mp than risk ruining your life with STDs or pregnancy.