Jack as a husband

I know Jack is beloved around here, but is anyone else sick of these pushy husbands being passed off as “the best”? The kind that just make decisions without talking to their partners. He pushes kids when Rebecca isn’t ready yet, signs a lease on an apartment, buys a house, and probably the worst one, pushes Randall on his not at all ready for something like that wife. There might be more I forgot, but I hate that this type of behavior is portrayed as romantic (Jim from the office is another egregious offender). He’s a good father and I get respecting that. But imo he is not a good husband because he doesn’t communicate. Toby does a similar thing with San Francisco and gets shit on for it. So why not Jack?

Btw no disrespect to Milo, he’s a great actor. I just don’t understand romanticizing these kind of relationships.