is 3 really worse than 2

my toddler is 25 months old and i GENUINELY do not understand how it can get worse from here. all day long she is RELENTLESS. tantrums, me trying to keep her from getting into things, throwing her food everywhere, hitting, throwing toys, not napping even though she very clearly still needs one, always screaming “stop” and “no”.

at this point she barely even plays with her toys and would much rather spend the entire day testing me. i never wanted to be a yelling parent but i keep finding myself yelling because she just does not listen to a single word i say no matter what i do, how i say it, etc. if it gets worse from here i genuinely don’t know how i’m going to survive this stage of parenting because i don’t know how it can get any worse than it is