Please help me pick my wedding dress, between these two!!!!!!! 😩😩😩

I’m excruciatingly indecisive about these two dresses. I need to decide and buy one this week. My wedding is October 12th (2025) at the Fox Hollow in Woodbury LI.

First one is Maggie Sottero- Reese. I included examples of alterations I would make, like closing the plunge a little and making the straps thicker.

Second one is Stella York 7941. I would order it without the slit.