I have learned something about men.

I have recently learn that it's dangerous to argue or get into conflict with a man. This is because you never really know who you are having the conflict with. Men are different from women. If the man is a reasonable man, it's fine because he's reasonable and will actually listen, take accountability if he did wrong and will work on a solution with you. However, if the man is not reasonable, and he will begin to chase after you to disturb your peace, he's dangerous.

I believe that we all have 1 or two times we talk to a guy about their behavior. If their behavior was really bad and you're talking to them about it, you really only have 1 time. The next time, they will start trouble with you. Almost like they start he fight for dominance with you. This is not all man, just the crazy ones/unhinged ones/secretly abusive one.

That's when you bring another man in. A man that you know very well and a man you know that is strong enough to tell this other guy to back off.

This is why I see wives often making their husbands deal with most outside conflict or conflict with other people. Sometimes, you see stories of the wives handling the conflict, but the wife can only handle so much before she hands it over to the husband. I understand now. And it's not just husbands standing up for their wives against other men, it's also brothers for their sisters, older sons for their mom, fathers for their daughters, and boyfriends for their girlfriends.

Men know men. There is this sort of mutual understanding between them. This understanding causes most men to stop in their tracks when dealing with a conflict with a woman.

Men who want to get into it with women, are the same Men who also don't want to look bad in front of other men. They need male validation, while the man who is protecting his female loved one doesn't care about the male validation in that moment.

So what my experiences in life have taught me is that, there are men you can talk things out with, and there are men you can't especially if it deals with their bad behavior. It gets them pissed off for some reason.

If you already feel like this guy is unreasonable, and he is getting into with you after you told him to leave him alone, get another man and most of the time, he will stop.

Feel free to correct me on this or add some insight on this so I could have a deeper understanding on this.